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The decision to not talk about or report sexual violence is often grounded in fear – and that fear is grounded. Although progress has been made, many barriers to reporting remain1. The process itself can be hostile to victims. Reporting does not always result in charges. When charges are laid and a case proceeds, stereotypes and myths are often present in the courtroom, perpetuating falsehoods on sexual consent and survivors’ lived experiences.
These realities are ever-present as we learn the verdict in the case of five former World Junior Hockey players charged with sexual assault against a young woman, named only as "E.M." in court2. Given the limits of the criminal justice system in understanding and responding to sexual assault, the indications of police bias in this case, as well as social misconceptions of how victims “ought to” respond to sexual violence3, we have long wondered whether a guilty verdict for any of the charges connected to this case was possible. Too often, sexual assault survivors do not see the outcomes that they hope for4. Courtroom outcomes are not a judgement on what actually happened, only what can be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. Today, we are not in any way surprised by the verdict of not guilty in this case. Further, we do not see this verdict as an indication of “truth-finding” in what happened between the complainant and accused, and we urge others to pause on this reflection – not guilty does not mean innocent of harm. Throughout this case in the courtroom, we’ve once again seen:
E.M. noted in her testimony that “she was ‘numb’ and ‘on autopilot’, feeling ‘outnumbered’ and ‘intimidated’ by multiple men she did not know”2 in the room where the incident took place. E.M.’s description stands out to us: being separated from others increases risk for sexual violence victimization among acquaintances. Being alone destabilises victims’ ability to express their refusal with persistent words or actions; it also enhances perpetrators’ advantages3. Compliance or capitulation to expectations for sex in the midst of fear is very different from consent. That is: where No is unsafe or impossible, Yes has no meaning. We believe that E.M. knew this, as did others in the hotel room. Her testimony on fear and the threat of violence was not given much weight throughout the court proceedings, and we believe this is a missed opportunity to better understand sexual violence and its impacts. Women, young people, racialized and Indigenous women, people with disabilities and gender diverse people (amongst others) live with an increased vulnerability to sexual violence4, for example; we also live with an awareness of this vulnerability.
For many years, we as sexual assault survivor advocates have pushed back on unacceptably high rates of reported sexual assaults that do not result in charges. There are many factors that play a role in determining sexual assault cases as ‘unfounded’, and many of these are informed by bias and rape myths. Examples include: “Detectives not correctly applying reasonable grounds, relevant witnesses not being interviewed, disproportionate weight given to the accused version of events, reliance on rape myths and predetermine outcomes prior to a full investigation (Hamilton Police Service Board, 2019)”5. The 2018 investigation of E.M.’s case reflects these patterns.
In this case, E.M., who agreed to consensual sex with one of the accused after meeting him in a bar, was cast by the defense as sexually “wild” and indiscriminate. Testimony of the accused was deployed to shore up this cliché—which is grounded in social disapproval and distrust of women who say Yes to sex.
We know that these ways of pushing back aren’t always possible during sexual violence. Overt resistance is risky and can lead to a changed relationship with the offender (which the survivor may value), conflict, or risk of greater violence: in fact, research shows that some women experience increasingly negative consequences of sexual harassment as their responses became more assertive10. More, E.M. did express resistance to her experiences with the accused. For example:
We recognize these actions as very meaningful in the face of violence. Often, survivors of violence will do these things because they believe what happened to them was wrong. In court, however, these acts of resistance were used to depict E.M. “as delusional, vengeful, exploitive, or an attention-seeker”11 -- a woman with regrets, or variously, seeking to ruin the accused’s lives. We note that these common depictions of victims have been the going strategy to diffuse allegations − and relieve those accused of sexual violence of accountability − since time immemorial. At SASC, we often support sexual violence survivors through difficult or disappointing criminal justice cases. We anticipate that our Centre and other community services for sexual violence survivors will also feel the impacts of E.M.’s story and court case. Every time a high-profile sexual assault case is in the news – Ghomeshi, Cosby, Weinstein – Ontario sexual assault centre crisis lines and counselling see a new wave of service users, and requests for prevention education at local schools rise. More work is needed to support sexual violence survivors To better support sexual violence survivors, we need the following:
We need to make way for restorative and transformative justice approaches to sexual violence in Ontario. Currently, Ontario’s D.4: Community Justice Programs for Adults policy names sexual offenses as ineligible, meaning that prosecutors cannot refer sexual offences to a community justice program. We urge the Attorney General to revise the policy and allow for the inclusion of sexual violence cases in community justice programs, when survivors request it. As Survivors for Justice Reform shares: “Restorative justice can play an essential role in addressing the harm caused by colonial systems, honouring Indigenous wisdom and disrupting the harm the criminal legal inflicts on 2SQT-BIPOC [2-spirit, queer and trans; Black, Indigenous and people of color] the most. Denying this option reinforces the harmful and inaccurate narratives that the colonial system is the one legitimate path to justice, while undermining the autonomy and dignity of survivors who seek alternative approaches”13.
Now in 2025, sexual violence expert testimony was not a part of E.M.’s case. As a result, effective analysis of E.M.’s actions (and inactions) before, during and after the incident in question were also not present in the case. We endorse the inclusion of sexual violence experts in similar cases in future.
We believe survivors We commend E.M., for finding the courage to continue to speak about her experience. We commend all survivors of sexual violence who choose to tell their stories, whether it be in a court of law, or to a friend, family member or other support people. Finally, we recognize and commend those who never share or report their experiences—in Canada, this is by far the vast majority of sexual violence survivors22. We wish we could say that E.M.’s experiences with systems were an isolated event; but for sexual violence survivors, we know that, unfortunately, it isn’t. If you’re a survivor of sexual violence: If something has happened to you, please know that there are people who believe and support you.
If you’re a friend, family member or mentor, there are things you can do too:
If you’re with a community-level sports team: You can connect your team with the violence prevention program OHL Onside, a program for Ontario-based hockey league teams run through local sexual assault centres. Sport organizations can set an example as leaders in preventing sexual violence, and your local sexual assault centre can help. Community-based sexual assault centres like SASC have been providing prevention education for decades. Preventing sexual violence can take many forms. It can mean:
This is a call to action -- Hockey Canada and other sport bodies must act now. SASC and other community-based sexual assault centres are ready to help. We stand with E.M. Media requests should be sent to [email protected]. Comments are closed.
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